Cuando empezamos una relación, nunca comenzamos pensando en la ruptura. Cuando ya somos veteranos en la guerra del amor y las relaciones, ya esto se vuelve parte de la vida y, no nos duele mucho; Pero cuando somos nuevos y entramos a ese terreno como un pequeño niño, nos da bastante miedo el pensar: ¿Como voy a reaccionar cuando esta relación se termine? ¿Como va a ser? ¿Me dolerá mucho o no?
Si, es verdad, quienes saben y ya tienen un amplio portafolio de relaciones, sabrán específicamente como enfrentarse a una ruptura, pero: ¿Y los que no sabemos nada?
¿Como es posible? Si apenas tengo poco tiempo en una relación, ya la estoy terminando. Así es la vida, no todo es en "bandeja de plata", pues nunca tendremos ese "amor para siempre" o la búsqueda se nos hará imposible.
Personalmente, aunque les confiese a mis amistades que romper es fácil, no lo es. Y es que actualmente con las redes sociales, los encuentros casuales y los "amigos" ningún ex amor estará demasiado distante como para olvidarle. Es difícil encontrar alguna inspiración para escribir hablando de un tema en el cual para muchos (incluyéndome) en algún tiempo nos enamoró y fuimos muy sensibles a esas personas que nos rompió alguna vez el corazón. Es horrible de tan solo pensar y pensar, el ¿Por que?, esa queridisima persona, la cual nosotros le "entregamos" nuestro amor, nuestra fidelidad, nuestra felicidad y alegría nos haya hecho tal cosa.
No podemos comparar la ruptura emocional, a una ruptura "simple" y con esto defino y me refiero a que: cuando nos separamos de algún objeto, recuerdo o algún animal nos separamos y sufrimos de alguna desolación, pero cuando nos separamos de algún ser querido, es diferente, y este concepto se divide en dos: La perdida de un ser querido por haber fallecido o por alguna mudanza u otras escenarios y la otra es la que siempre nos afecta y nos conlleva a otras acciones, esta ruptura es la que sufrimos porque esta mas cerca a nosotros, ya que no formamos parte de una persona sino ya pasamos a ser dos (la pareja)
No me quiero extender mucho redactando este post ya que en la semana estaré escribiendo nuevos tips que nos ayudaran a superar el primer rompimiento. Gracias a todos por ser fuerte después de una ruptura nunca debemos depender de alguna persona "ajena" a nuestra vida, y que además nos daño nuestra alegría por un momento.
Seamos fuertes, seamos libres.
When we started a relationship, never thinking about the break started . When they are veterans in the war of love and relationships, and this becomes part of life and did not hurt much, but when we are new and we entered this area as a small child , we pretty scary to think : How do I react when this relationship ends? How's it going to be? Will it hurt a lot or not ?
If true, those who know and already have a broad portfolio of relationships, know specifically how to deal with a breakup, but : What about those who do not know anything ?
How is it possible ? If I have just a short time in a relationship, and I'm finishing . Such is life , not everything is on a "silver platter " because we will never have is " love forever " and we will search impossible.
Personally , although I confess to my friends that break easy, is not it. And it is now with social networking , chance encounters and the "friends" no former love will be too distant to forget . It is difficult to find some inspiration for talking about a topic which for many ( including me ) at some time we fell in love and were very sensitive to those people who once broke our heart. It's horrible just thinking and thinking, Why? , The dearest person , which we will " deliver " our love, our loyalty , our happiness and joy we have done so.
We can not compare emotional breakdown , a breakdown "simple" and thereby define and I mean that when we split an object, or an animal remember we separated and suffer some distress, but when we separated from a loved , is different, and this concept is divided into two : the loss of a loved one due to death or some move or other scenarios and the other is the one that always affects us and leads us to other actions , this break is we suffer because it is closer to us, and we are not part of a person but as we became two ( the couple )
I want to extend a lot writing this post because in the week I will be writing new tips to help us overcome the first break . Thank you all for being strong after a break up should never depend on any person " others" in our lives , and we also damage our joy for a moment.
Be strong , be free.
When we started a relationship, never thinking about the break started . When they are veterans in the war of love and relationships, and this becomes part of life and did not hurt much, but when we are new and we entered this area as a small child , we pretty scary to think : How do I react when this relationship ends? How's it going to be? Will it hurt a lot or not ?
If true, those who know and already have a broad portfolio of relationships, know specifically how to deal with a breakup, but : What about those who do not know anything ?
How is it possible ? If I have just a short time in a relationship, and I'm finishing . Such is life , not everything is on a "silver platter " because we will never have is " love forever " and we will search impossible.
Personally , although I confess to my friends that break easy, is not it. And it is now with social networking , chance encounters and the "friends" no former love will be too distant to forget . It is difficult to find some inspiration for talking about a topic which for many ( including me ) at some time we fell in love and were very sensitive to those people who once broke our heart. It's horrible just thinking and thinking, Why? , The dearest person , which we will " deliver " our love, our loyalty , our happiness and joy we have done so.
We can not compare emotional breakdown , a breakdown "simple" and thereby define and I mean that when we split an object, or an animal remember we separated and suffer some distress, but when we separated from a loved , is different, and this concept is divided into two : the loss of a loved one due to death or some move or other scenarios and the other is the one that always affects us and leads us to other actions , this break is we suffer because it is closer to us, and we are not part of a person but as we became two ( the couple )
I want to extend a lot writing this post because in the week I will be writing new tips to help us overcome the first break . Thank you all for being strong after a break up should never depend on any person " others" in our lives , and we also damage our joy for a moment.
Be strong , be free.
